Unfortunately, these things happen in war, Cinders, it's a nasty dirty business, as my father found out being on the receiving end of German bombs. My father suffered permanent hearing loss and recurring nightmares, lasting more than 30 years due to being bombed and witnessing other things during WW2. The Germans and Japanese started it and we gave them back a taste of their own medicine. We, the U.K. and U.S., made a better job of doing to the Germans and Japanese what they had previously done to us.