Yep, same here. I was briefly in the American Legion, but drifted away. Lots of looking back instead of forward. A friend wanted me to join Vietnam Vets as they were accepting all Vietnam Era veterans at the time. I declined for two reasons. One I was never in country and two, the old looking back instead of froward. After 22 years in law enforcement, including being a homicide investigator, I had enough horrors to remember of my own, I did not need others.