Then again, you are using a punch or knife sharpener to perform the very same operation. So, in that sense, you do have an "expander ball", it is just different than the one RCBS and Redding provide. You are welcome to do so, but it's not as if the function doesn't need to be performed. You said as much, yourself. Why do you prefer that method?
Personally, I prefer not to use my bullets as an expander ball. I prefer to use an expander ball as an expander ball and prefer an expander ball over a "punch or knife sharpener". If I were performing a manual case neck expansion, I would use my Sinclair expander mandrel, held in its die. This yields VERY uniform neck interior dimensions over the entire length of the neck. The die/mandrel are press-mounted so variations due to tipping (typical of a manual operation) do not occur.