I was stationed at NAS Barbers Point HI in 1983 and the squadrons routinely participated in RIMPACs with Japanese Navy counterparts. One of their officers stated he wanted to visit the Arizona Memorial and needed directions to get there. A squadron chief responded quite angrily “right where you sank it”. It was a very awkward moment.
I also visited Hiroshima in 1987 with the USS Ranger and probably had similar feelings as an American visitor.