In the eye (brain) of the beholder.

[Peter Laidler]

But you're dead right war-pig. We have a saying in England that '...where there's a will, there's a way' We say of those people '...where there's a will, there's a DIFFICULT way. Sometimes you really do want to answer something like '.....you need to get out a bit more' but being a diplomat and all that and someone who hasn't got a way with words, you just have to bite your tongue