Check out this Gal shooting 20 gauge ammo out of a 12 gauge shotgun

[Chuckindenver]

they do make ultra light loads for the 12 ga, most larger sporting good stores carry them or can order them,
i used to buy them for women and kids to shoot, about half the recoil.
i love the .20 ga, but would rather teach kids and women on a 12 with light loads, if someone is tought to hold a shot correct, and lean into it a bit, holding the butt tightly against the shoulder, recoil really isnt that bad...
agree, she has way to much on...some Daisy Dukes, and a bikini top would be about right.