Not sure I'm following the whole use pocket change to keep some spacing to disassemble the bolt thing.
If you're referring to unscrewing the bolt shroud/fp assy. out of the bolt body just flip the safety tab to the center position(assuming it's a mil spec safety) before removing the bolt from the reciever. Doing this removes all the fp spring tension.
If it's an aftermarket low pro safety clamp the cocking piece protrusion in a vise and pull out on the bolt body while turning it in the appropriate direction.
Any way you can post pics of what you're working with? Namely the cartridge you're attempting to fire, especially there headstamp. Oh, what the hay, might as well post some of the whole rifle and the bolt assembled and disassembled while you at it.